I have a surprising amount of men contact me because they’re worried about ED. When I talk to them and we discuss this, I find out is that they are able to have a erections, they are getting erections, however they’re comparing those erections to erections they got when they were 16.
Erections men get at 16, 17, 18, 19 and into the early 20s are extremely hard because of the high levels of male hormones in the body and because of the sensitivity of the body. However, no one stays young forever.
So what I hear from men is they are not satisfied with the quality of their erections and the fact that you’re not getting spontaneous erections. Spontaneous erections generally stop happening at about 38, 39 if you’re lucky late 40s. The reason they stop happening is because men gain control over their sexuality, they have had sex hopefully, a lot of sex, and they aren’t as quickly aroused as they were when they were younger.
None of this is a bad thing. It is just a function of nature and aging in general. True ED is when you can’t get an erection at all and there is no ability to get an erection. I have seen a few men like this however they are generally men who have long-standing health issues or long-standing issues of shame about sex. They often can be helped but it’s a longer process.
Most men who think they have ED generally just need more stimulation. They need more foreplay. They need more direct stimulation of the lingam and they need more patient and have more time to have sex.
They need to learn how to experience pleasure just for the sake of pleasure, not to feel a rush to get through sex to hurry and have a very brief short orgasm, but to learn how to relax, stay focused, receive pleasure, give pleasure and have a long full body orgasm that is truly fulfilling.
None of this is difficult stuff to learn. It’s easy and very doable in one session. In one seesion, you can get the basics and they can turn your sex life around. If you really want to study tantra and get more out of it by learning the meditations, learning more about the breath and learning more about the way the body reacts then I suggest take the course is not that expensive it takes about a month to complete and you have a set of techniques that can help you gain peace of mind, calm an overactive mind,and also give you greater pleasure in sex and in life.