Tantra & Consent

Unless you are living under a rock or housebond with no internet you have to be aware of the national discussion about sexual harassment. I am sure much of this has left men confused as to how to behave. It should not. Being a decent human being is not difficult. Be honest. Treat people like you want to be treated. That is about it.

I think the confusion comes in when men assume that the attraction they feel for a woman is shared when it might not be. A man’s attraction to a particular woman can be based on physical traits, a certain look or anything superficial that speaks to him on a physical level. Although men often find this appealing and will be very complementary to a woman about how she looks. Most women are not impressed with this sort of come on. However this woman says it better